Based on my personal experience of abuse, I know as it is, as victims of abuse. I felt a point where I could not go further. I felt alone, and there was no other way but at the end of everything. I had no fight and gave the left. Fortunately, I succeeded in the attempt of my own life. I was determined to defend. How dare he to me, and so far. It was frightening to think of itself, but not as scary as a misuse. I had no self-esteem. I was not and ugly. I was deaf. I knew I had not, before being destroyed, I had the chance to live a normal life and a chance to luck. I have the decision rather than demolished.

If you are a victim of abuse, and a strong fight. There are hotlines for assistance, shelter for abused women, and local authorities to assist law enforcement authorities. Access to family or friends. Tell them to your advantage. There are sites to visit to you about your feelings and your confidence. You do not need to do alone.

“I intend to move forward. Do you have friends or family, personal items await you after your abuse.” I have maps, phone numbers, and / or safety instructions Tack houses before leaving. You can leave that information to someone you trust, and after recovery. “I do not quit, while the perpetrators, there is – wait, he’s gone.” I do not know, give an indication that you give up. Now, down to calmness. “I am an officer of the law to walk with you or at home if he should come back when you leave.” If I have something on your back, to be sure to do so. It may be all replaced, but not your life. “I If you do not have family or friends to stay for a safe country.” I do not give your site or phone number to third parties unless are you sure he can be trusted. “I have always something, if you will.” I get the help of advice – do not try to deal with this alone.

I have my life, but for years, I still have nightmares of the abuse. Finally, the nightmares have disappeared. Every year of my life lost, because I am the past. The more you abuse situation, the harder it will be demolished to leave you. I now have much more that I am no longer in an abusive situation. I forgot my self-esteem and confidence. I feel like if I conquer the world. It’s a good feeling.

Phyllis Benton, Nightmares life of abuse. Autobiography. A source of inspiration and history of emotional abuse. Survivor emotional, sexual and physical abuse. Book to be released if publish america and other online bookstores. ISBN 1-4137-9156-5. http://www.pdbenton.org
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About the author
Phyllis Benton, born in a small fishing port in Maine in 1952. Child she wrote short stories, but never thought on the publication of one of them. Years later she lived in a large part of the United States. From school at an early age, Phyllis went back to school and have their bachelor’s degree in 2002. She then went to university. While in school, she wrote her book of life Nightmares abuse. Phyllis Mitchell degrees

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None of the women interviewed in 8000 on the use of the veil or the burqa in full the questions, the Times said.

Despite the suffragist passions, their women aside their own issues and said their countries would have more problems such as violent extremism, corruption and lack of unity among Muslim countries.

Although women in large part, they should have the opportunity, outside the apartment, and serve in the highest levels of government within the framework of equal treatment between men and women West: 78% Morocco, 71% in Lebanon and 48% in Saudi Arabia, the New York Daily reported.

However, if the question of what the least admired about the West, they said moral decay, promiscuity and pornography, women humiliated.

A majority of women said that economic and political progress in Muslim countries, not improving, with the adoption of Western values, said the investigation, according to the New York daily.

Face-to-face interviews were conducted among 8000 women in 2005 for “What women want: listen to the voices of Muslim women”, a part of The Gallup World Poll, a project to promote 95% of the world’s population.

Most women said the best aspect of their cultures of their countries “Annex to the moral and spiritual values, the” Times “said the survey.

“The women was a central objective of American policy in the region,” said Dalia Mogahed Gallup World Poll.

However, Mogahed said that what they really want to Muslim women, has not been plumbed.

Egyptian-born Mogahed wears a headscarf, and said that Muslim women are not brainwashed, over time.

She cites as evidence the statements of respondents, that some merit.

“In every culture, there is a dominant narrative, and in many cases it is, man in power, not surprisingly, to men,” she was quoted as follows in the Times.